In “The Talk: After Ferguson, a Shaded Conversation about Race” by Dana Canedy, the author talks about the precautions that she would come to tell her son when dealing with the police. She lists these precautions or procedures as “Always address police officers as sir or ma’am. Do not make any sudden moves, even to reach for identification. Do not raise your voice resist or run.” These tips seem like the common logic of how to act when in contact with an officer but when they reach a certain age as the author’s friend states “before they were no longer seen as cute” everything a person of color does can be seen as dangerous. I’ve seen this in the news; black men are dehumanized with mugshots and labels such as thug and criminal making them seem as though they are just a dangerous person and not a human with rights. On the other side, white people who commit crimes are labeled as children, and you see their prom or Instagram photos making them more appealing and worthy of a second chance. This image that the news puts out groups black men into a bubble of being dangerous, causing these prejudices to be made and fear to be put into people. I see why the author’s son wouldn’t want to be seen as black because he would want to be seen as an innocent child rather than a dangerous criminal.
My mom always told me and my brothers not to let our good be evil spoken of, which means taking extra steps to make sure people see that you are in the right, leaving no room to assume you could be in the wrong. I don’t know if other races take extra steps to seem less dangerous or even have “The Talk” with their children, I can only speak for myself. What I do know, is that a lot of races face prejudice and labels that have been put out through the media and events, but in order to get out of our labels and be treated like the majority group what has to be done?